Denim Day Dedication

On April 25,2011 LA,CA and USA celebrated Denim Day. Some of you may be wondering what Denim Day is. Well in Italy 1990, an 18-year old girl is picked up by her married 45-year old driving instructor for her very first lesson. He takes her to an isolated road, pulls her out of the car, wrestles her out of one leg of her jeans and forcefully rapes her. Threatened with death if she tells anyone, he makes her drive the car home. Later that night she tells her parents, and they help and support her to press charges. The perpetrator gets arrested and is prosecuted. He is convicted of rape and sentenced to jail. He appeals the sentence. The case makes it’s all the way to the Italian Supreme Court. Within a matter of days the case against the driving instructor is overturned, dismissed, and the perpetrator released. In a statement by the Chief Judge, he argued, “because the victim wore very, very tight jeans, she had to help him remove them, and by removing the jeans it was no longer rape but consensual sex.”   Enraged by the verdict, within a matter of hours the women in the Italian Parliament launched into immediate action and protested by wearing jeans to work.
 Denim Day was formed to bring awareness to women and men that sexual violence is never OK, regardless of how tight your clothes are, how reveling your clothes are, etc. It does not give the right to any one to violate you.!. So now wear your jeans proud and uniquely and stand up for sexual violence prevention.!

*If a victim of sexual violence please contact police authority and/or talk to someone you trust, so they can contact authority. NO means NO !

Judgemental is never a way to live

Recently I've been observing my peers &&'d alot of people are judgemental of others or think of them in certain ways because of sterotypes. I think this is ignorant &&'d shows your lack of knoweledge. There is no need to tell someone what their doing is wrong, when your not living a perfect life either. When you see people dont automatically think negative of that person it does nothing but cause personal conflict. If someone judged you off of apperance or race you would be hurt &&'d want to prove to that person you aren'nt what they think you are. My point is to give people a chance before labeling them. It's only fair. God didnt judge you before he made you .

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I am not the girl you expect me to be, but what i expect of myself. So...

Squint your eyes and look closer. I'm not between you and your ambitions. I am a poster girl with no poster. I am thirty-two flavors and then some. And I'm beyond your peripheral vision, so you might want to turn your head. 'Cuz some day you are gonna get hungry, and eat all of the words you just said.

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Deep in my heart I'm concealing things that I'm longing to say. Scared to confess what I'm feeling - frightened you'll slip away.”

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Rule Book !.[ rules will be added]

 Hi, you all may know me but in case you don't my name is Nay &&'d this is a small rule book. I came up with these rule as I experienced them I hope it helps :D

Rules for "Friends with Benefits"
 Rule # 1 : NO KISSING - kissing complicates everything !. simple
Rule # 2 : No Snuggling - why are you guys snuggling?! your not a couple
Rule # 3:  No eye gazing - that too is for couples
Rule # 4 : No holding hands- that's for couples, in case you didn't know
Rule # 5 : No PDA(public display of affection) - once again you are not a couple.
Rule # 6 : No pet names !!!- i.e. babe, honey, babby. etc. you get the point
 Rules 1-6 are common sense rules you do not do these things because you are not a couple ! those are couple activity's you are not a couple you guys are Fucking Friends , keep it that way !.
Rule # 7 : Do not talk about "Him" to other people.- they'll automatically think he's your boyfriend &&'d then there comes an explanation
Rule # 8 :  Do not go on dates- causes horrible loving memories
Rule # 9 : Do not go shopping together - it only causes horrible loving memories
Rule #10 : No sleepovers- sleeping over implies cuddling and as I said before CUDDLING is for couples.
These rules for "Friends with benefit" are intended to keep you guys as "friends with benefit's" in my experience it allows those unnecessary feelings that cause people to fall in love to no be formed &&'d it save you &&'d the world  heart ache.

Only ignorant minds think alike

Recently I have been hearing my peers talk about what they expect form their "Man" or "Woman".


This is what ignorant guys expect from woman: they expect woman to do what ever they say, have to mind, be sexually available when ever they need it and to depend on themselves for everything.
^ that is not what a "Man" expects from a "Woman" , but what a "Boy" expects from a "Girl"


 This is a what a chick expects from a man: they expect a man to have his whole life together by the time he's 21, to take care of her, to be the a nice ,not overly sexual and to attend to her every need.
^ this is not what a "Woman" expects from a "Man" but what a "Girl" expects from a "Boy".


 This is reality : A "Man" and a "Woman" are not equal partners a "Man" is suppose to be supportive, loving, caring, honest and financially stable and a "Woman" is suppose to be supportive, loving, caring, honest and financially stable.

Ah I see my readers are confused because I name the same quality's for both a "Man" and a "Woman" , See where the inequality come in at is where the support, love, care, and financials are disputed. A man can more financially stable than caring and vise-verse, the couple should always discuss things like that.Which makes a stable and healthy relationship between a "Man" and a "Woman".

Quote of the week :)

"There is always more knowledge to learn, always more experiences to experience, always more tears to shed, and more coughs to cough. There is always more life to live."
---Erin Leigh Walder

My Apology

I can honestly say I did you wrong. Left you when you needed me the most. I admit I let you down. I apologize.
 I can honestly say you gave me your heart, No I did not break it but I put a little tear in it. I apologize.
I can honestly say you put all your trust in me &&'d I let you down. I apologize.

The fact that I recognize that I did wrong &&'d I accept the consquence's which result in me Losing your trust,your love &&'d what we had.

 It's not if I cheated or lied. I was selfish. I left you when you were in need. I left to fulfill my own happiness. It's not if my Happiness was'nt with you but my Happiness was being challenged. I apologize.

Now with all that being said, I need you to accept my apology, put all this behind us, stop looking at me different. Im the same person, I love you the same. So please my love, take my hand &&'d follow me as I continue on with my life. Just know im moving with or without you. I cant stand in one place, I have to move on I need you by my side. If you feel as if you cant stand by me &&'d stand up tall &&'d be strong w. me. Im leaving you, you'll be lost in the crowd. I said my goodbyes, I apoligized the burden is no longer mine. It's your choice to forgive me.

Love, Nay